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10 May 2012 @ 08:12 pm
I am setting out to watch all of the "Tuesdays with Nina" videos, because I love her, what she talks about, and how she talks about it!

If any further proof to why I love Nina is required, I just watched the First "Tuesdays with Nina" video and it was wonderful. I loved the way she talked about consentual sex and clarified that having sex to cause pain is about having sex to deceive/lie/emotionally harm/hurt someone (or which leads to dishonesty that does), rather than BDSM. BDSM = yay! Hurting people intentionally and without consent = boooo.

I'll be watching more of those, definitely.

But first I'll be doing laundry, because life is always pesky and gets in the way of things.

(So I guess I'll be talking about sex and sex education more freely now, the same as I will now freely admit that I've got fuzzy pits and legs? I suppose if that's a problem then it's a problem, and we can sort it out. But sometimes I just have to give myself the freedom to say "this is my journal" and not worry about other people, even if I hate the idea of "driving people off". I suppose, then, we can talk about it? Also, I know myself to be considerate enough to never just have Random Naked People pop up in my journal without adequate warnings, and I don't see myself posting actual pornographic videos/images [although perhaps links, especially to fanart, since I'm still in fandom], and I think I'm versed enough in triggers to know what to put behind cuts; hopefully trust in that will be enough.)

I also totally forgot to mention that watching erotic videos makes me want to write more, which is a Good Thing. Yay smut!
lash_laruelash_larue on May 11th, 2012 12:56 am (UTC)
Indeed. Watch more smut.

Kiwi Crocus: MPFC || Blackmail.cranky__crocus on May 11th, 2012 12:57 am (UTC)
Ahahaha. Yes ma'am! *Salutes.*
"Q" is for "quor": kyaa!q_sama on May 11th, 2012 02:35 am (UTC)
Okay, this has nothing to do with your post, not because I'm not interested but because I have nothing productive to say - but I had to comment with icon- love. I adore Victor/Victoria. :D
Kiwi Crocus: HP || Sibyl || Hug everyone else.cranky__crocus on May 11th, 2012 04:40 am (UTC)
Actually, this is going to sound super silly of me, but I don't know who Victor/Victoria is! I found this icon of her nestled in with some others of her from other roles, and never found out what this one was from. What is it from? (I'm absolutely positive that I will love it--and probably adore Victor/Victoria as well--once I know what to watch!

Silly Kiwi is silly and has icons of things she doesn't know. (Although, actually, I think that's limited to just this one. Perhaps some Xena icons, since I haven't watched the whole series through, but I at least know the series and the characters. :P)