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12 January 2012 @ 10:10 pm
 
Once upon a day, Jenne admitted to me that she loves yoyos and that if the world was falling apart around her, she might not notice it if she had a yoyo. I have been researching yoyos and where to acquire one. Yesterday, I failed to buy one from Walmart (though I think I felt corporate corruption slithering against my skin). Today I failed to find one at another Walmart (damn hard to find a good yoyo in Massachusetts) but succeeded in snatching a reasonable one at Toys'R'Us. I thought that, with it being 2012 and the year of Ultimate Destruction of the World oh Dooooom, a yoyo would be the perfect gag gift for Jenne. But also not a gag-gift, because I know she really like them and I picked up a good one. Also, if anyone is going to think up a yoyo meditation, it'll be Jenne...and I love yoyoing, and need to get myself to meditate more.

Also made it to Savers with my friend Cake (whom I haven't seen in far too long) and was purchased by a pair of white Victorian-esque boots for cheap (they own me now). When I put them on I fell in love with my feet. Unfortunately some drama went on with Cake's mother so we had to cut the visit short.

But what I'm really writing up this post for is a mention and some fulfilment of one of my semi-resolutions. (I'm not strict on them; I try to gently incorporate them into my life.) One that I wanted to do was to be more open with LJ. Long ago, I didn't have many friends in fandom...so this was more of a straight up journal and I felt free to speak on whatever I wished, TMI be damned (though of course I usually used LJ-cuts or warned). These past few years I've been more careful. Also, I'm afraid of being judged by fandom friends, as I tend to hold you all up quite high in my esteem and would always hate to fall further down away from all of you hanging out with the stars.

So the rest of this post will be to follow through with that resolution, and also because I feel it's something I want to mention before my Rowe post (which I have not started yet but is due by tomorrow when I leave--due dates on LJ posts, hark).

By now, you all will know that I have hair. I have a rather lot of it. It's long; it's brown; it's curly; it makes a good cat toy.

But I also have hair that isn't on my head--hair that I choose to keep. Sometimes I wear it with pride (many times with strangers); oddly enough, when it comes to those I love and who might not know about it, I am more self-conscious. I've definitely hinted at it in past entries, but here I shall give you one of my Coming Out points that is often much harder for me than coming out as gay: I have body hair. And I keep it.

A lot of people might say it's a trivial thing. But then, on the other hand, may also admit that they'd never go out when people might see body hair they've neglected to shave (winter leg fuzzies, forgot-to-shave-my-pits fuzzies, bikini fuzzies) because they'd feel "disgusting". I always wonder how something can be both trivial and, by its presence, make a woman feel disgusting and unfit for the public. It also means that, to some women, I choose to live my life appearing "disgusting" (and unhygienic, and uncaring); thankfully many other women only feel disgusting when they don't shave, but don't find it the same on other women.

Regardless, I choose not to follow a common and now deeply-ingrained feature of my society's definition of "beautiful". That is hard sometimes. Some women who don't shave say it isn't a "feminist issue" for them; I think that that is not the first term to come to my mind when I think about my body hair--and I'm not sure I would label it feminist "issue"--but "feminist" does eventually come to mind. Simply because I think it should be a choice for women just as it should be for men: to shave or not to shave. (And, arguably, men don't always have the choice to shave without ridicule/mean-spiritedness; I don't think that's right, either.) Other people say that of course there's a free choice--just stop using the razor, the wax, the tweezers, the what-have-you! But if women who do so and women who might want to do so are viewed with disdain (just look to the media even when it comes to a celebrity having a little bit of stubble), is that really a choice? Shave, or don't-be-shamed-and-be-ridiculed-and-deal-with-it?

When I was somewhere between 10 and 13, I was on a floatation device with my friend out on a lake. She gasped and said, "[Kiwi], you have a hair! You need to shave!" So, thinking I needed to shave--I noticed every other woman around did--I started shaving. At 13/14, my friends asked, "Kiwi, do you shave?" I looked down at my blonde fuzzy legs and said, "No." "We all shave, Kiwi! You need to shave too! Don't you want a boyfriend?" So, seeing that all the other girls my age and women above my age shaved, I took a razor to my lower leg. Sometime later I realised everyone was shaving up their thighs, too, "just in case", apparently; suddenly I was shaving up to the line they showed me, too, because that was what I was 'supposed to do' and no one told me there was a choice. When I entered high school, my friend said, "Kiwi, you'll never get a girlfriend if you don't shave down there! How can you expect her to want to do anything with you?" Here I noticed that many women differed, but from what I could tell everyone my age seemed to and the few ventures into online videos seemed to depict a certain hairlessness, so I thought, "I'm trying to date girls my age, not the older ones, so I guess I need to shave..." And away went the hair.

I remember one day after one of my hip operations, when I had to use a shower seat to clean myself, I was shaving just about everything but my head and I just felt miserable. But I didn't have a choice, did I? Everyone did it.

At 16, after my sophomore year in high school, I showed up at Rowe Camp & Conference Center for my first year of camp. I was wearing a leopard tail, lots of rainbow, and a cape; one of the woman who had worked there the longest said, "Welcome back!" as if I had been there before and it made me feel comfortable right away. Later I stood around Rowe camp, looking around, and I saw a woman walk by me. I noticed that her legs were fuzzy and that she had tufts under her arms; I thought she was beautiful. My mind boggled. I had a choice? I could just...not shave? I found this woman beautiful, too, even with the hair!

That summer I stopped shaving. Sweet Sixteen, and I let myself put the razor down. Now, I'm not one to say hair removal is mutilation or weak-minded or disgusting or indicative of men's desire turning paedophilic; I think that everyone should have a choice with their hair--all of it. Want pit fuzz and a lovely lady bush but smooth-as-silk legs? Awesome! You rock it! Want a squeaky-clean-shaven head but hair everywhere else? Fantastic! Rock it! Want to keep your facial hair because it’s ‘so you’ and you’re sick of ditching it? Fabulous! Show it off! Want lovely locks but soft hairless skin elsewhere? Wonderful! Go for it! But let's not judge anyone else who wants it a different way. We're all different, right? Why wouldn't we want to wear all our hair a bit differently?

It was a relief for me to stop shaving. I didn't end up with so many dratted cuts, and I wasn't so sodding itchy! It wasn't all rainbows and butterflies, of course. I went to an American high school. I remember one day in a plant class I lifted my arms to put a scrunchie (hair elastic) in my hair (by that time, my head hair was getting long again, too); one of my classmates (her major was Floriculture/Floristry) gasped and said, "You don't shave!" as if she didn't have time to close her mouth on the words and they just tumbled out. I wondered if it had ever occurred to her--as it once hadn't to me--that a woman could just Not Shave. I'm pretty sure she gasped and snickered and giggled about it with her friends, but I was okay with that. And sometimes even at Rowe we'd get an occasional camper who would say, "Geeze, why are so many of the women here hairy? Don't they know it's gross?" And that's most of what I hear in the media, too, though thankfully I subscribe to some great places online for the happy hairy people like me.

So sometimes, when I'm wearing a hoodie over a dress or leggings under a skirt (though honestly that's mostly for chafing), it's because I know I sport tufts that many other women don't, and sometimes I'm afraid of the responses of those I love and admire. Sometimes the bravest thing I can do is not actually bear my belly, but lift my arms or hike my skirt. Because I have hair; it grows there. I don't judge women who remove it; I wish more women would reserve the same courtesy for me.

But even when they don't, and even when my hair remains in shadows and cloth too often, I can still look at it affectionately. We've passed our 5-year anniversary, after all!


Hairey Awarey Tufty Love! (Yes, I am looking fondly at my armpit jungle. It's soft and treats me well and loves to feel the breeze or water, same as all my other hair. ♥ Leg hair in water is divine.)

I think it goes without saying--based on the contents of this post alone--that I don't wish for any sorts of disparaging or mean comments, but I will say it anyway, just to be sure. This is my Livejournal; this is my Internet home; this is my safe space. If this revelation disgusts you to the point of ending contact, please do so quietly if you value my feelings, though a polite goodbye would be highly appreciated. (It may seem, to the open-minded of you, for me to have to say such things; alas, I have lost friends over sillier things than this. But this has lost me friends in the past. Or halted the formation of a friendship.)

Ahhah! Getting work done on my resolutions! And coming out of the closet! (Or coming out of the medicine cabinet, or something.)
 
 
 
Nickiperoxidepirate on January 13th, 2012 04:53 am (UTC)
Awww, you look so happy in your picture! :) Thanks for sharing this.

I have a similar story about quitting leg-shaving: I was 17 and at college orientation, the summer before freshman year, and one of the tour leaders had long, beautiful leg hair, and I was like, Yeah, I could do that! So I did.

Later (seven years later?) I got a job where I (felt like I) had to present as more "normal," so I started shaving my legs again. These days, I shave below the knees in the summer because it's easier to clean up after work than if I let the hair grow.

I shave my pits and don't shave my groin. That just feels right and always has.

Edited at 2012-01-13 05:20 am (UTC)
Kiwi Crocus: Women || Swimming.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 03:42 am (UTC)
Thank you. (: I was feeling very happy when I took that picture - finally sharing something difficult about myself (that shouldn't be difficult), even if it took me a while to actually do anything with the picture.

Yeah, I've wondered how not-shaving and jobs in America will go down in the future, but since my clothing style tends to be about shape over skin (tight-ish tops with sleeves of some sort, long skirts with leggings), I'm not too worried.

I love finally opening a discussion about shaving!
Megan: smilemirellarussian on January 13th, 2012 05:11 am (UTC)
Good for you! Do what makes you happy!

I've often thought of doing No-Shave-November or something, because honestly the idea of not shaving is something that scares me a little and I would like to be brave and try it. Unfortunately, I spend much of my time dressed in leotards surrounded by younger, judgmental teenage girls. But hey, bravery is good!

Anyway, you've inspired me a little! Yay, Kiwi! <3
Kiwi Crocus: Nature || Pink tree contrast.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 03:44 am (UTC)
I guess, these days, a lot of women stop shaving first out of No-Shave-November--some just do it for the month, others continue on after that.

Yes, I can imagine that being in that attire around younger, judgier girls would be incredibly difficult; I was still shaving by the time I had to stop dancing. I couldn't have imagined being a non-shaver at the time.

Glad to be helpful! (:
kellychamblisskellychambliss on January 13th, 2012 06:04 am (UTC)
Shaving should definitely be a choice -- personal, political, whatever. It's a matter of preference only (or should be) with no more baggage attached than we attach to someone's choice of chocolate ice cream or vanilla. I know it doesn't always work that way, but it should.

It's a fraught issue for a lot of people, though. When I belonged to a radical feminist group as an undergrad, I was criticized for shaving -- for having "bought into the patriarchal objectification and infantilizing of women."

Well, maybe. All I know is, if I don't shave daily, I feel itchy and out of control. Sure, maybe it can be argued that it's patriarchal, cultural forces that have made me feel this way in the first place, but if so, it was so long ago that it doesn't matter. I've internalized the idea now, and for me shaving is no different -- and no more significant -- than any minor grooming thing, like cutting my toenails or brushing my teeth.

My partner is the opposite -- she doesn't shave, says she just can't be bothered. I rarely notice. It's such a non-issue for us.

The idea that someone would actually end a friendship over it is just mind-boggling.

So stick to your guns, sweetie, and do whatever makes you feel best.

ETA -- "a fraught issue in the US," I should have said. I don't think other cultures are nearly as fussed about it.

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minervas_eule: P & Pminervas_eule on January 13th, 2012 08:28 am (UTC)
Well, I never bothered to shave until very, very recently, when I saw my youngest daughter do it all the time and there suddenly were the "tools" to do it in the house.... now I took it on for during summer; but as my husband certainly does not care (he hates everything that is not its natural way) and one feels itchy if it is not done all the time once started, I never even thought about it until just a short time ago, when I changed in so many ways and suddenly like it better that way myself which my husband has to accept ;-)
Kiwi Crocus: Seasonal || Winter branch.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:01 am (UTC)
Yes, it is absolutely your choice and your husband will have to live with it. (:

I personally find that I get itchier more often when I shave, and I feel uncomfortable when I shave enough to try to avoid the itch. I don't tend to notice I have hair at all when I don't shave, so it's more comfortable for me this way. C: Also, it's soft!

My mother hates it, though. Funny, to me, that she first encouraged me not to shave my leg hair (I forgot to add that, but of course it was in the phase of my teenage years that would have produced only, "Mum, you don't know anything!") but would prefer I shave my armpit hair. But I don't think she really minds that much--and it would be a bit silly if she did, really, given that they're my armpits and it isn't as if she sees them often, anyway!
zeezofbadfaith on January 13th, 2012 10:15 am (UTC)
The issue of shaving is a very dear issue to me (I'm actually writing this while looking at your pic -- don't mind me being a creep -- and I'm smiling so big, I wish you could see it), mostly because I don't shave, but I do wax from time to time.

In Brazil not shaving is a FREAKING SERIOUS business; people are judgemental and they WILL make comments and point fingers and say bad things ALWAYS. That's why you Americans call that all-hair-removing-with-wax a Brazilian (which I find quite amusing). If you're a foreigner they might judge you less for it -- because not-shaving is expected, mostly when it comes to Europeans -- but if you're Brazilian, why the hell would you not shave? "We live in one of the hottest countries in the world, and hair just gets in the way." that's what they'll probably say, because you can't wear skirts or sleeveless shirts if you don't shave, right?

Right. That's what I heard from my mom, when I was around 12. I had (still have, in fact) a freaking lot of hair; if I had in mind to let my hair grow, it'd probably get as long as yours. And I have it every-freaking-where, arms, legs and all the rest. I mean, my family's Italian so OF COURSE I'll have lots of body hair; but I was taught that I shouldn't show it or have it. Hence, I wax it. I've been waxing for more than ten years now (and it hurts like a mothereff, let me tell you -- a lot more than getting tattoos, and you've seen me get a tattoo) and thus I have what I'll call "hair flaws" on my legs, which are some spots that don't even have hair anymore.

It took me a freaking long time, but at some point in college I decided I'd stop doing it, because I was so freaking tired of having to pay for body removal and it's not cheap either. So I just quit -- to the point that my brother once turned to me and said "Dude, you have more pit hair than I do!" which made me laugh SO MUCH, I also had more hair on my legs than he did on his (my brother is an adept of male grooming, which is totally considered a straight thing here). But I always kept in mind that if people who didn't knew me saw it, they would judge and comment and whatnot, so I mostly stick to myself, and I usually wear tshirts anyway. And I still do wax from time to time (mostly when my mom insists).

And lemme tell ya, there's nothing quite like having hairy pits. It's completely different than anything and I can't quite describe it. It's just so fun to just look at then, or run your hands through the hair :D And also, in the middle of it, I found the
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The issue of shaving is a <i>very</i> dear issue to me (I'm actually writing this while looking at your pic -- don't mind me being a creep -- and I'm smiling so big, I wish you could see it), mostly because I don't shave, but I do wax from time to time.

In Brazil not shaving is a FREAKING SERIOUS business; people are judgemental and they WILL make comments and point fingers and say bad things ALWAYS. That's why you Americans call that all-hair-removing-with-wax a <i>Brazilian</i> (which I find quite amusing). If you're a foreigner they might judge you less for it -- because not-shaving is expected, mostly when it comes to Europeans -- but if you're Brazilian, why the hell would you not shave? "We live in one of the hottest countries in the world, and hair just gets in the way." that's what they'll probably say, because you can't wear skirts or sleeveless shirts if you don't shave, right?

Right. That's what I heard from my mom, when I was around 12. I had (still have, in fact) a freaking lot of hair; if I had in mind to let my hair grow, it'd probably get as long as yours. And I have it every-freaking-where, arms, legs and all the rest. I mean, my family's <i>Italian</i> so OF COURSE I'll have lots of body hair; but I was taught that I shouldn't show it or have it. Hence, I wax it. I've been waxing for more than ten years now (and it hurts like a mothereff, let me tell you -- a lot more than getting tattoos, and you've seen me get a tattoo) and thus I have what I'll call "hair flaws" on my legs, which are some spots that don't even have hair anymore.

It took me a freaking long time, but at some point in college I decided I'd stop doing it, because I was so freaking tired of having to pay for body removal and it's not cheap either. So I just quit -- to the point that my brother once turned to me and said <i>"Dude, you have more pit hair than I do!"</i> which made me laugh SO MUCH, I also had more hair on my legs than he did on his (my brother is an adept of <i>male grooming</i>, which is totally considered a straight thing here). But I always kept in mind that if people who didn't knew me saw it, they would judge and comment and whatnot, so I mostly stick to myself, and I usually wear tshirts anyway. And I still do wax from time to time (mostly when my mom insists).

And lemme tell ya, there's nothing quite like having hairy pits. It's completely different than <i>anything</i> and I can't quite describe it. It's just so fun to just look at then, or run your hands through the hair :D And also, in the middle of it, I found the <a href="http://hairypitsclub.tumblr.com/"Haity Pits Club</a> on tumblr, and sometimes it's so inspiring, to see so many beautiful women who have hair on their body :) And like Tetley said, yesterday I <i>also</i> wish I was a shaver, just so I'd feel less pain removing the bandages from my knee D:
zeezofbadfaith on January 13th, 2012 05:44 pm (UTC)
Also, I hate LJ for messing up my comment (which I just saw now D:) and then not letting me edit it. Damn D: (and here I am adding a thousand replies to it XD)
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Miss M.miss_morland on January 13th, 2012 11:22 am (UTC)
I agree with everything you said, especially the bit about the choice between shaving and not-shaving not being an equal one. (And if people feel judged by radical feminists for shaving -- well, radical feminists are not the ones in charge of pop culture or the beauty industry. It's like saying judgy vegans are as much of a problem as the meat industry. But I digress.)

One of the last times I shaved my armpits was actually before going to the Victory Ball at Diacon, because I worried, like you, what my friends would think of me. (Ironic, I know.) It's been ages since I bothered to shave before going swimming, but I do feel self-conscious when showing up at the pool with my hairy legs and armpits. But the time and money it would take to remove all my body hair and do so constantly, is more than I want to spend. And I don't want to support an industry that's preying on women's insecurities and making them feel as though something that's completely natural is 'disgusting' and 'dirty'. Because that's the idea that's being promoted, and it shows that the issue of shaving is not simply an aesthetic or trivial one, though it should be.

In short: body hair is natural, the beauty industry is cynical and calculating, and you are lovely!
Kiwi Crocus: Text || Be brave today.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:24 am (UTC)
It's a little funny that we both had some anxiety about the Victory Ball and didn't know about the other's feelings until now--what with your shaving and my covering up with a hoodie. If only we had known then, it would have made great conversation!

I'll admit to feeling self-conscious about showing up at pools with hairy legs and 'pits. It's annoying, because it's not out of my feeling ashamed--I really do like my hair--but out of others' judgements. I may continue to live my life as I wish, but it's not as though I don't notice--and it's certainly not as if it's pleasant, to have a constant reminder of being judged. And I know people say judgment is more about people projecting their own feelings into others...but I know what society I'm living in, and I know how slim the chances are that no-one notices and no-one cares.

And I don't want to support an industry that's preying on women's insecurities and making them feel as though something that's completely natural is 'disgusting' and 'dirty'. Because that's the idea that's being promoted, and it shows that the issue of shaving is not simply an aesthetic or trivial one, though it should be.
Yes. It seems to go against my case of not judging or criticising shavers, but I definitely agree with what you've said here, too. It's almost a "hate the sin, not the sinner" thing for me, except that it's a "hate the corporations and media for commercialising and pressuring a habit, not the people with the habit".

I guess I don't shave for a number of reasons, and even with the reasons, it's still hard. And I know I could always just start shaving, but then I would be judging myself, and that actually feels worse than knowing everyone else is judging me... Because while on one level body hair should be trivial, cultural pressures have made it not-so, and so it isn't trivial for me: it's important and a big choice.

Thank you for your comment! ♥ (And for the compliment, too, of course. (: You are lovely, too, and looked lovely at the Victory Ball--just as you would have with tufts! Perhaps next time we can be brave together. (; )
lash_larue: Garden Clublash_larue on January 13th, 2012 02:09 pm (UTC)
Good for you!

I do my legs, mostly for the ink, and armpits when I get frustrated with deodorants being messy.

If you were counting on this to get rid of me, it didn't work.

;)
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Kiwi Crocus: Nature || Under magnolia skies.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:25 am (UTC)
I think if I had ink like yours, I'd consider shaving my legs, too! (And, whenever I finally get that crocus tattoo on the ankle, I'll consider shaving a bit just for that.)

Glad this didn't get rid of you! :D
redbeargrlredbeargrl on January 13th, 2012 04:35 pm (UTC)
I really love your picture Kiwi!

I do pluck my eyebrows because I like having two rather than one. (Sometimes I think I really do have some rampant Bear genes.) I never had much hair on my legs for some reason. A swipe with a razor once a year or so and I'm good. I do the pits because that's a personal choice.

I will say however, that getting older has caused some hair growth in places I once paid large sums of money to deforest. Sigh...

Kiwi Crocus: Rainbow || OLSB-rocker-lady.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:27 am (UTC)
Thank you! ♥

Once a year? Wow, that's impressive! I'll have to see how age treats my hair. Mostly I'm excited to see what it does to my head hair--I'm hoping to be one of the naturally grey/white-haired ladies some day, who doesn't dye. I always admire those women fiercely.

Although I'll always be tempted to throw in a little rainbow...
Gloryforestofglory on January 13th, 2012 04:40 pm (UTC)
Go you! I think this post was quite brave.

I don't shave either, but I'm not very brave about it -- I generally wear things that cover my armpits and I frequently wear things that cover my legs.
Kiwi Crocus: Rainbow || Letting the hair down.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:29 am (UTC)
Thank you!

I'll admit I mostly wear things that cover my armpits and legs as well, but I wouldn't say that's all about hair--I prefer wearing clothing that hints at my shape without baring too much skin. So sleeved shirts and long skirts/leggings are my preference anyway. Though in the summertime I occasionally wear a bit less--sometimes. :B
CaroRulescarorules on January 13th, 2012 09:41 pm (UTC)
I def wish society didn't make it as if we don't have a choice to shave.

I admire you for being so brave, you ROCK IT!
Kiwi Crocus: Hair || Starfish braid.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:29 am (UTC)
Awwwr, thank you, lovely! ♥
?elsceetaria on January 15th, 2012 11:00 pm (UTC)
Such gorgeous hair (all of it)!

My sister is nearly 16 and has never shaved. I'll admit that I sometimes harass her about it, but it's always if you want to. Or at least that's how I try to make it. I find it completely terrible that she was forced to fax her facial hair during the whole mess that went down because she should by social standards.

I shave when I want to, which it gets itchy or whatever. Right now my hair is pretty epic as well.

You really do have gorgeous hair.
Kiwi Crocus: Nature || Birds of a feather.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:32 am (UTC)
Thank you thank you! (:

My mother used to harrass me more about shaving but has thankfully stopped. Now she teases me by occasionally coming up and pulling my leg or armpit hair, which may sound mean, but it's something she does to be silly with my father--so it's pretty much a way of normalising it with me. Like, "Oh, there is here, I shall tug on it!" without judging me for having it. Just being silly. Because my mother is a silly-face.

Thanks again! ♥
tt: just wanted to saytwisted_twister on January 18th, 2012 09:35 pm (UTC)
Not too much to add to everybody's wise words; personally, I don't find body hair attractive and I prefer to remove parts of it, but it's a personal choice and I never do that religiously.

Wanted to dedicate these for you: it's about acceptence and hair....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2AxFPN63Cs
http://www.myspace.com/phrancmyspace/music/songs/one-o-rsquo-the-girls-8022035
Kiwi Crocus: Ani D || Grinning.cranky__crocus on January 25th, 2012 04:44 am (UTC)
Oh, I love the second one! I can't believe I'd never heard of Phranc; I'll have to look up and get some of her music! Thank you for sharing!
aeshna5 on January 25th, 2012 05:59 am (UTC)
You look beautiful + your fuzzy pits add to that. There is a tumblr group for women with hairy pits so you can find a lot of similar minded fuzzy women.